Wednesday, March 08, 2017

Not Quite All the Way to the Moon

     It may seem like a recent thing, but people have been loving others to the moon for a long time.  Maybe not always back, but to the moon at least.

Hidden inside of that clip, kind of around, behind and in spite of the blatant threats of domestic abuse, is the fact that Ralph Kramden, for as many times as he threatened to send Alice "to the moon," was way ahead of his time. Because now, everyone loves everyone to the moon and back, and I have no idea what the hell that means.
     Come on girls, this is a girl thing.  It has to be.  I typed it into the search bar on Pinterest and it came up with three hundred billion different results.  I typed into the search bar on and it brought up an article about Arsenio Hall getting a late night talk show.  So come on ladies, it is International Women's Day, help me out.  The Internet coughed up this tasty morsel for me:

Bullshit.  Nope.  I call something even more immense and significant that bullshit:

Nobody, absolutely nobody, thinks of that twenty miles of truck thing when they are posting on Facebook that they love their teenage son to the moon and back.  All they are thinking about is that is a really trendy phrase and that they love their kid. But it is becoming overused, and it is becoming cliche. Sorry, no accent marks.
    In reality, despite what random things on the internet might say (see above), they origin of the phrase is pretty simple as far as I can figure out.  The moon is a long ass ways away.  And when that first mom told that first five year old that she "loves you to the moon and back" it was the easiest way to make that little child understand the immensity of her love.  And it works great for that.  But your 22 year old daughter.  She knows a little bit more than just the moon.  So maybe let's use some grown up words and phrases.  Or old Ralphie boy will give it to you...POW! Right in the kisser.

Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Let Them Have VD

    So here we are, Company, sitting with one another on Valentine's Day.  And since we aren't out getting all googly-eyed and lovey dovey in some dimly lit restaurant that serves wine in those gigantic tub glasses, it would be easy for us to take one of two generally accepted tracks, and one new innovative one:

1.)  Get angry and disparage everything Valentine's Day and/or love and/or relationship related; or
2.)  Go on and on about the gruesome history of St. Valentine and mention the Valentine's Day Massacre at least twice; or
3.)   Memes.

Yeah, that is an easy choice.  Memes win every time.  But today, singles of the world, you should choose option number four:

4.)  Leave it be.

Yeah.  Leave it be.  Let the love folks have their day.  I know that it is easy to get butt hurt on Valentine's Day because it sucks when you are not in love but everyone around you is.  Or at least seems to be.  Every single radio or television advertisement, every aisle at Walgreens, your usual Build-A-Bear Workshop Station, are all constant reminders of your sad loneliness.
     But don't ruin it for all the people who wish to celebrate. You can't just hate something because you don't participate in it, that is regressive neanderthal thinking. By that thinking you would have to have Mardi Gras and the monsoon, assuming you don't live in a place which celebrates Mardi Gras or experiences the monsoon.  The point here, Company, is that they still deserve happiness, even if you can't experience it, because they aren't experiencing their happiness at your expense.  They are just experiencing it without including you.  Get over it.  Let them be in love.  That is what being a grown up is all about.  Get used to it.  Shit like that is probably why you are single, anyway.
     Wonderful.  Now, I am off to throw snowballs at happy couples as they come out from their Valentine's Day dinners.  Happy Valentine's Day!

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

The Worst Kept Secrets

HOLY SHIT!  Do you guys remember Live Journal?  Cause I do, and that stuff was nuts.

     Every time I am presented with a situation in which someone is keeping a diary or journal, I am always tempted to do so myself.  It seems like such a great idea.  Then I remember that I am an award winning blogger, and I should just take the time to express my thoughts by writing my blog on a more regular basis.  But the two don't always jive, because what you don't come here to read, Company, is my innermost thoughts and feelings about the daily life and times of a media mogul. You want entertainment.  But I digress.  Back in the day, if you wanted a diary or journal that you could share with people all over the place you would use something called Live Journal.
     Live Journal was like someone took your personal diary - you know, the one which you keep under your pillow and which has that little easily picked key lock on it - and smashed it at high speed into the Internet.  It really was quite innovative, and aspects of it can be found here at the site that I use to create Big Dave and Company: Blogger, on Facebook, and in a number of other places around the Internet.  You had this community of friends who could see what you posted and vice versa, and whenever you put out an entry they could go read all about it.  It was pretty slick.
     Except back then the Internet was still sort of in its infancy, and so people weren't as quick to the uptake as they are today.  Exactly why one would want to take their diary - something which in written book form is usually kept hidden and often features a locking cover - and publish it for all to see is beyond me.  That is something that your family does posthumously after you die in your blaze of glory.  But people did because of reasons and it got them in trouble so often.  It was really easy, back in those Internet infancy days, to forget just how connected you suddenly had become, and people would go in their Live Journal forgetting that people could read it.  Or not understanding that stuff was out there once it was out there, and that it was discoverable.  So inevitably someone would find what you said about them, or the six degrees of Kevin Bacon would kick in and a mutual friend would rat you out and suddenly you had a social situation with your college roommate on your hand.
     What it turned out to be, in those early days of the Internet, was like moving into a small town when you have never lived in a small town before.  In a small town everyone is related somehow, and even if you are not related, everyone knows everyone, so it takes some time to get used to the fact that you have to be VERY careful about what you say.and who you say it around.  Eventually you figure out just to keep your mouth shut because it will always get back around.
     And so it was with Live Journal.  Eventually people figured it out (well, most people did) and it sort of evolved into more of a blog hosting site which was eventually sold off to the Russians.And with it all of our secrets.  Not national secrets, but all that gossip about who we like and how we can't believe what she did with her hair or did you hear about the skank you ex is dating now?  Those secrets.  Except they were the worst kept secrets around.